Major Sex-drive Killers You Need To Know

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Major Sex-drive Killers You Need To Know

Erection Problems
Erectile dysfunction (ED) can not only affect the ability to have intercourse but also how a man feels about his ability to perform. There are many options available to treat ED and your doctor can help find the option that is best for you and your partner.


Stress
The body does not react well to stress. Emotional stress may affect physical functions, including sexual desire and performance. Realising what underlying stressors may exist is the first step in treatment. Self-help may work but some people may need to visit a counsellor or doctor

Alcohol
Alcohol is usually not the answer to any problem. While alcohol may decrease inhibitions, it also decreases sexual performance and libido. Your partner may not appreciate a drunken advance and may be turned off by it. Alcohol is an addictive drug and you may need help to quit.


Obesity
Obesity affects one-third of all Americans and being overweight can limit desire because of decreased sexual enjoyment, lack of performance, and poor self-esteem. How you feel about yourself goes a long way in affecting how you enjoy sex. Counselling may be helpful.


Low Testosterone
While a man’s testosterone level gradually falls with aging, there is not necessarily any relationship between hormone levels and the desire for sex. It is just one potential cause for decreased libido and your doctor may want to look for other causes in addition to just low testosterone.


Depression
Depression affects all facets of life, including sex drive. Losing pleasure in daily activities often requires treatment including counselling and perhaps medication. Unfortunately, some antidepressants also depress libido. Your doctor and therapist need to know if low sex drive is one of your symptoms of depression.


Lack of Closeness
Making love is more than just sex. Intimacy and closeness are important part of a healthy love life. If sexual desire is waning, it may be time to inject romance back in the relationship.


Snuggling, giving each other massages and spending casual time together may help ignite that spark.
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